Charles in Therapy

What happens when an eight-year-old immigrant chasing the American Dream grows up to become the therapist he once needed himself? Charles shares a powerful story of resilience, mental health, identity, and finding purpose through service.

Summary

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Combined Episode Summary (Buzzsprout / Spotify / Website)

Charles' story starts in a crowded house in Manila, where being "poor" still meant having a nanny, but dinner might be bananas and rice for weeks at a time. At eight years old, he's dropped into West Oakland, learning English, skipping two grades, and joining a school clown troupe just to make friends and figure out where he fits.

What follows is anything but a straight line.

We talk about growing up Filipino in the Bay Area, discovering rave culture and drugs at UC Santa Cruz, and a suicide attempt that eventually leads to a diagnosis of paranoid schizophrenia. Charles shares what psychosis actually felt like—the intrusive thoughts, the anxiety, the fear that everyone could somehow hear what was happening inside his head—and how medication, therapy, and community support helped him find his footing again.

Along the way, he works with at-risk youth, special needs children, homeless outreach teams, and adults struggling with mental illness before ultimately becoming a therapist himself. Today, he supports school-age kids and families throughout the Bay Area, bringing not just professional training but lived experience into every session.

This conversation isn't about a perfect American Dream. It's about the messy reality of healing, relapse, recovery, community, identity, and choosing to keep showing up. If you've ever wondered whether your struggles disqualify you from helping others, Charles' story is a reminder that sometimes the things you've survived become the very tools you use to help someone else make it through. 💜

From immigrant kid to therapist, Charles proves that healing isn't about having a perfect story, it's about deciding to stay in it.

Charles

Charles came to Oakland from Manila when he was eight years old, chasing the same promise many immigrant families do: a better future. After a winding path through college, mental health struggles, recovery, and community service, he found his calling as a therapist.

Today, Charles works with children and families throughout the Bay Area, bringing both professional training and lived experience to the people he serves. His story is a reminder that healing isn't about being perfect, it's about continuing to show up.

Resources & Mentions

Education & Career Path
Mental Health & Social Services
Bay Area Mental Health Resources
Crisis Support
Finding a Therapist
Grief Support
Learn More About Topics Discussed
Psychosis & Schizophrenia
Immigrant Mental Health & Culturally Responsive Care
Men's Mental Health & Emotional Literacy

💡 Key Takeaways

  • Immigration and adapting to a new culture as a child

  • The power of community and Filipino family values

  • Mental health stigma and the realities of psychosis

  • How therapy and medication can work together

  • Why lived experience can deepen empathy and connection

  • The importance of asking for help before reaching a crisis point

  • Finding purpose through service to others

"Once you start processing these feelings with somebody else instead of just in your head, it helps."

~ Charles

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